What if rejection wasn’t a sign to shut down, collapse or abandon your deepest desires, but an invitation to deepen into your erotic power, seductively refine your strategy and get even more turned on by what’s next?

In this episode, I share a recent “no” that sent me spiraling until I remembered what the courtesan would do.

Spoiler alert: she doesn’t crumble. She gets off.

If you’ve ever felt crushed by rejection, ghosted by a client or shut down after making a vulnerable ask, this episode of the Eros Money Power Podcast is your permission slip to seduce power out of every perceived setback.

This is where collapse becomes foreplay.

And where you rise from the ashes of rejection dripping in eros, not defeat.

What we cover inside this episode:

How to turn rejection, disappointment and collapse into erotic energy that fuels your turn on and next move
Why you keep asking for crumbs when your soul wants the whole damn cookie jar (and how to stop settling)
The #1 mistake women make when they put their desires on one person or path (and how to shift into sourcing from your power instead)
A real case study of a client who used seven “no’s” to land a 6-figure YES…by getting kinky with rejection
The courtesan’s secret: how to alchemize rejection into magnetism and make the universe beg for an encore of you

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I recently made a request from someone in my life that was met with a “no.”

At first? I felt myself go into a mix of fight and collapse/freeze/shut down.

I felt my head hang, my shoulders slump, my posture drop.

My heart closed. My pussy, pelvis and energy contracted, making me smaller.

Protecting me from more perceived pain.

I felt my cheeks get hot, my jaw clench, my body in defense mode. Preparing me for a fight.

The defensiveness to protect my hurt and disappointment. My powerlessness.

When I was alone in the car later I sank down into my body. I asked myself: “how would a courtesan handle this?”

Here’s what I realized (that left me dripping in eros and power)…

— A courtesan wouldn’t give up, she would get off on it. She would get bigger, not smaller.

I bragged to myself for making the request while honoring that…

— I wasn’t asking for enough.

I was asking for the bare minimum. I was settling for a crumb when I wanted a whole damn jar of cookies.

We often make requests already bracing for rejection.

So we either don’t ask at all (and feel resentful) or we ask for what we think the other person will be more likely to agree to.

It’s rarely enough for hungry bitches like you and I who ALWAYS want MORE.

Not in an “I’m never satisfied” way, but in an “I’m here to devour and drink fully from this life” way.

Which means we shrink our desires until they’re more pleasing, palatable, agreeable.

We worry they’ll choke on our too muchness…the fullness, depth and bigness of our desires…so we make it an easier pill to swallow.

But at a colossal (and expensive) cost to us.

— I was asking someone who isn’t resourced enough to give me EXACTLY what I want.

On an unconscious level I already knew that I was approaching someone who couldn’t give me the full desire.

Yet I wasn’t taking full responsibility for the fullness of my desire. Or MY role in its creation.

I lowered my desire to meet them where they’re at instead of opening myself up to who or what could give me what I truly want…or something even wetter, better, hotter.

I put pressure on them to be the source of my desire being met.

So of course I felt crushed, powerless, victimized, rejected and disappointed.

I put the weight of my desire on one person’s shoulders instead of realizing that they’re not my source.

The Goddess is, the earth is, life itself is.

It’s like the saying “when one door closes, another one opens.”

You exist surrounded by limitless open doors, but when you put pressure on one person/option, it feels like the one and only door closed if they say “no.”

You are more powerful than that and you hold a powerful, influential energy inside of you that can rearrange rooms and reality around you right in this moment.

— I remembered the case study I shared recently of my previous client, R, who dared to ask for exactly what she wanted.

She secured a 6-figure investor to co-buy a company worth multi 6-figures…but it wasn’t without the erotic edge of rejection.

She was told no by potential investors 7 TIMES before she got a yes.

Each time she was told no?

She got more strategic and powerful, not more dejected and hopeless.

She got off on the “no’s” and turned rejection and disappointment into power, freedom and turn on.

We did several kinky shadow integration rituals for her to get off on the “no,” come back into her erotic power and refine her strategy from there.

She kept going when something fell through.

She got turned on and excited when she received a “no” because she knew she was that much closer to a yes.

Like any courtesan would do.

When she gets told “no,” the courtesan smiles, because she knows it’s just foreplay for what’s coming next.

What if “no” is foreplay for something even bigger? You can rise from collapse like it was part of the seduction the entire time.

— I took a page from my own playbook (and the courtesans’) and got off on it.

I felt the sensations this morning of rejection, disappointment, powerlessness, victimization, shame, even brattiness.

I don’t like being told “no”…or do I?

I felt my pussy instantly respond and as I continued the erotic, somatic practice of getting kinky with rejection…

I felt it pulse from my pussy, my whole body relaxed, yet aroused.

I breathed my erotic energy through my whole body, softening, opening, melting yet electric with eros.

I felt free, alive, powerful, dripping wet, turned all the way up and on.

Exactly what my Academy of Eros Money Power stands for.

Eros. Freedom. Power.

My energy expanded, my heart opened, my body responded.

Now I feel like anything is possible and ready to seduce the right “yes” in.

Rejection isn’t the end…it’s the erotic edge.

And powerful women like you know how to get off on the erotic edge.

Are you at that erotic edge of rejection and desire?

So they said no.
The client ghosted.
The door slammed.
Someone backed out last minute.

Cute.

Now watch how you flip it, strut through the service entrance and leave them gagged with regret. Or ready to be at your service next time.

Inside House of the Courtesan, we don’t just handle rejection…we flirt with it, get off on it and turn it into our next big turn on (and pay day).

What if, like the infamous courtesans, you knew how to turn every closed door into an open door…into a stage?

It seems like the red velvet curtain has dropped, but what if it’s about to seductively pull back and reveal an audience, in full standing ovation, begging for an encore?

Begging for more of you. This is the vibe of my 8-week LIVE experience House of the Courtesan.

When you know how to harness your erotic power to influence, seduce and command your desires into existence and bend the world to your will…you’ll never say no to own your desires again.

You won’t shrink them, water them down or play it safe. You’ll ask for that desire that makes your pussy drip.

You’ll see every “no” as foreplay before something even hotter comes in.

This is what the courtesan embodied. And now you can too.

I’ll teach you the exact same arts, codes and qualities I’ve found courtesans embodied and have since passed on to every woman as a legacy, a lineage, an inheritance.

It’s all yours for the taking.

Should you choose to say yes and claim it.

Enter the House of the Courtesan now.

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